My Year of Fear 2019!
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

My Year of Fear 2019!

In 2019, I put the ‘thriving’ skills I teach to the test, to show that anything is possible, whilst raising money for charity.

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Talking Body Image: Why We Really Strive For Perfection In Our Looks
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

Talking Body Image: Why We Really Strive For Perfection In Our Looks

We all think that we know what an ideal body is. But I want to emphasise just how much of it is a) ever-changing and evolving, and b) socially constructed rather than ‘real’. These days, fat shaming is still pretty common, and people who are larger are deemed to be ‘unattractive’ and many other horrible words that I won’t bother repeating. But go back to the days of Henry VIII and it was actually FASHIONABLE to be large, almost obese

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Do you control or do you cope…?
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

Do you control or do you cope…?

If somebody can't manage their feelings and emotions well, they tend to over-manage the situation/their environment instead. It’s control in its most primitive form, because it’s wanting/needing to take control to get away from an intolerable feeling and escape to something better, rather than tolerating and coping with it instead.

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Deciding whether to ‘go solo’ or to get help from a Coach!
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

Deciding whether to ‘go solo’ or to get help from a Coach!

For many people, particularly people like me who had been stuck in a rut for a while and honestly didn’t have even a shred of self-belief that I could make it out myself, enlisting the help of a Thrive Programme Coach can be key in getting the absolute maximum out of the programme

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Why are we so afraid to be imperfect?
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

Why are we so afraid to be imperfect?

In a nutshell, a perfectionist is somebody who feels unable to tolerate anything less than perfection in themselves, their own lives and their achievements. It’s not simply a person who works hard and achieves things - even though that is often the case for a perfectionist as they do work incredibly hard, mostly to try and actually BE the perfect person they want the world to see them as.

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LET’S TALK ABOUT BODY IMAGE!
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

LET’S TALK ABOUT BODY IMAGE!

Whenever I ask clients what they think about their own bodies, they normally reel off a whole load of their imperfections, the thing that aren’t as good as their friends’, that aren’t small/toned/tanned/pretty enough etc.

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Reflecting on the Pandemic: 11 things I learned during lockdown…
Lisa Erlandsen Lisa Erlandsen

Reflecting on the Pandemic: 11 things I learned during lockdown…

How in control we feel of our lives – not just in terms of being able to control what’s happening IN them, but being able to control our reactions and emotions when things DON’T go to plan, is hugely important to our wellbeing. It’s probably one of the most important things really. And during an unexpected global pandemic, huge and very sudden adjustments are having to be made.

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